Talk reveals the
content of the
heart. This is especially so when difficulties in life arise. The way a
person talks about a problem will reveal something about their
philosophy of life because talk is informed by world view. This is just
as true in casual conversation as it is in professional “talk
therapy.” As a counselor talks about important issues in
counseling, he reveals his philosophical perspective. As a matter of
fact, the field of counseling has its roots in philosophy.
The
thinking behind the talking of a counselor is always based on the
counselor’s “world view.” This is why it
is so
necessary to seek a “like-minded” counselor.
Christian Counseling combines modern methods of counseling with
Scriptural principles, using Biblical Truths as the reference point for
integration. With this theoretical foundation in place, a good
Christian counselor prayerfully attempts to yield to God’s
will .
Struggles are always a part of life’s journey, and with the
proper perspective a Christian Counselor seeks to be used of God to
help people along in their journey with God.
God
is very concerned about the way you think, and refers to the importance
of “renewing the mind” in scripture. Likewise, a
counselor
often attempts to “renew the mind” in therapy
through the
appropriate use of techniques and interventions. So, again, it is
critical that when one submits to counseling it is with a counselor who
is a “like-minded.” Remember that your mind is very
often
the subject of the change process in counseling.
Let’s compare this perspective on counseling with the medical
model. Pharmacology, for example, most likely does not change when
medicine is prescribed by Christian doctor. Or a broken bone does not
set differently if you do not share your doctors’ world view.
Similarly, state of the art cancer treatments do not change because of
the doctor’s religious perspective. I recognize that in
medicine
ethical issues as well as treatment considerations sometimes vary
depending on world view, but in counseling world view always makes a
difference. This is because the goal of the “talk
therapy”
is to change the way you think, act, interact, and even change what you
believe.
So
if you’re physically sick, go to a good doctor. If physical
illness, disorder, or injury is the problem, then the competence of the
physician, rather than world view, may be a more important factor in
choosing who to see. On the other hand, if the issue is a matter of
counseling (talk therapy), then competence and world view are equally
important in choosing who to see. As the Scriptures say, “. .
.
for what partnership have righteousness and lawlessness, or what
fellowship has light with darkness?” (2 Corinthians 6:14)
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